Any choice made is always right. If you understand why, it becomes horribly simple and easy. Especially for those inclined to reflect on their past actions.
Let me explain. In any situation, a person always chooses the most suitable situation for them among the circumstances that have arisen. Yes, sometimes none of the proposed situations are pleasing, and one has to choose the least sad option. But it will still be the most suitable option.
The choice is always right or there is no choice at all. Because there is always only one – the most suitable option. In any situation, there are supposedly three components of “choice”:
Circumstances + Person + Best option for them
This particular person in these particular circumstances can make only one single choice. The one that is made. In these specific circumstances, another person, who is not this person, can make a different choice.
To make a different choice in these specific circumstances, a person needs to change and become someone else, and then in the future, in exactly the same circumstances, they will make a different choice.
If you think about it, this knowledge can greatly ease life, which is the result of many small and big choices in our lives. But, just as well (if you think about it thoroughly), this life is predetermined to a certain extent, because the choice is made by this particular person, and if they consciously do not change, they will continue to make choices that will continue to predetermine their own life.
That’s the twist, really, it’s simple.
If you don’t change, you don’t grow – just eat what you’re given, even if you think you have a whole range of choices, you’ll still choose the option that corresponds to your own nature – the one you’ve managed to develop by this moment. And if you want something else, then grow, damn it, spiritually and socially, and physically too, develop yourself, and you’ll have a different you, who will make different choices and grow a different life for themselves.
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