Just when they get together and something may happen between them—it almost doesn’t matter what that is—she is carefully listening. She may not even be aware of it, but she’s listening to make sure his actions align with his words. It’s in a woman’s nature; she needs to trust the man and make sure she can rely on him. As soon as she notices that he hasn’t followed through on something he said—even if it’s something tiny that she might not remember consciously (oh, but even if it’s subconscious, she won’t forget that he didn’t follow his words or promises!)—she will start feeling that something is wrong. She will never build a relationship or anything more than just a brief, insubstantial episode with a man she feels (not necessarily thinks) she can’t trust.
Women appreciate reliability. There is no quicker way to make a woman stop respecting a man and lose interest in him than for the man to use language of uncertainty, such as “I am not sure,” “I don’t know,” “Maybe,” “If,” “Perhaps,” or “Probably.” On the contrary, if a man wants a woman’s interest, the best approach is to use decisive language: “I” + a certain verb. “I want to see you tomorrow.” “I will arrange that.” “I will call you 30 minutes before I finish.” Your sentence is constructed correctly if everything is explained explicitly and doesn’t require additional clarifying questions.
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